Online dating is fast becoming the preferred way for foreign men and Thai women to meet. If you are interested in meeting Thai women, you should go for them. The best way is to set up an account on a Thai dating site such asThaiLoveLinks or ThaiLoveLines, fill out your profile without any typical cliches or nonsense and then wait for Thai women to find your profile. They WILL come along and that is when you should contact them.
Pretty women are popular everywhere and that’s true online for Thai girls as well. Women who have attractive pictures get tons of emails from guys every day. Chances are one of these guys look better than you, so you have to be a little creative. Being a little laid back, a little more passive, may actually work with these girls, it worked for me. Keeps her wondering why I don’t pursue her as much as the others. Anyway, do what comes natural to you. You have to be lucky to get your email opened and you have to be different.
What’s funny about online dating profiles is of course that a lot of them are full of hot air and some are complete garbage. That’s true for meeting Thai women online as well. Many times the girls will lie about their age, weight and income among other things.
Ok, if you are starting in the Thai online dating world, here are a few tips:
1) You will want a free email account similar to the name of your dating profile. Once you have had contact with a Thai girl, you can go the next step and continue on online chat. Never reveal too much online, you never know if your neighbor decided to pose as a Thai girl for laughs! A separate email account also keeps your regular email free of all the messages and notifications you will get from a site like ThaiLoveLinks (and you will get many with a decent profile).
2) If you plan on chatting online, do yourself a favor and buy a decent webcam. This will help you present yourself better. Remember, you are trying to date someone who may be thousands of miles away and she needs to know something about you. People do judge on image and particularly online when that is often all there is. If you have a webcam, more women will also be willing to use theirs and that is obviously good for you as well. But remember that webcams show what you are doing, so if you are chatting with many women, you will likely get busted! Thai girls know when you do this (because they in turn chat with more than one guy!).
3) Stay away from ‘crazies’. If a Thai girl has written something in her profile like: “I am crazy girl” or “I do crazy things”, discard her as a potential girlfriend or even date. As silly as it sounds, these girls may indeed be crazy and a lot of trouble and you could find someone a lot nicer. Go for normal Thai women when dating online.
4) If you are looking for a serious relationship and marriage, do not go lower in your search than 7-10 years younger than you. If you are an older guy, maybe 10-15 is ok, but not lower than that. Thai women younger than that are not going to be mature enough. I am often amazed at how emotionally immature some Thai girls are even into their 30’s and 40’s. While it’s fun and endearing to some extent, it can also make things turn sour. Girls who are in their 20’s do generally not want to find a husband online. They may write that they like an older man, but be careful! Younger Thai girls may be interested in a sugar daddy kind of relationship though which is very common in Thailand.
5) If you are looking for a girl of virtue, a traditional Thai girl, then maybe online dating is not going to cut it. Conservative girls don’t do internet dating anywhere. Or if she does, she may be scared off after a bad experience. But conservative Thai girls are hard to meet anywhere!
6) Thai women look great in photos and much younger to us than they really are. Some Thai girls care so much about their appearance online that they will use pictures taken in a studio. So, don’t get your hopes up too early even if your future girlfriend looks like a model online!
7) Be specific about what you want and what you are searching for. People are often more direct online than in real life and that’s the advantage of meeting Thai women online. Remember that she likely won’t know what you expect going into a relationship and you may not know what she wants.
source : onlinedatingthailand
